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posted on 2004-2-4 at 01:24
Ah, Kim.
What would I do without you hun?





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posted on 2004-2-4 at 01:47
I often ask myelf that

teehee...I loveee youu!

..and your smesky legs in a kilt





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posted on 2004-2-4 at 01:54
Ah! *hides* Ewww Kim, as much as I'd love to gaze at your gorgeous face all evening..that pic of me is horrid





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posted on 2004-2-4 at 01:55
*cringes*

I make that SAME face in EVERY picture...





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posted on 2004-2-7 at 05:50
back to the actual topic:

what is love?





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i cant bring myself to fogive you, i cant force myself to fogive you, i cant bring myself to forgive you

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posted on 2004-2-10 at 03:17
it seems like this topic has been dead for two days... i think i've had a change of heart about valentines day. personally i never really cared.... until this year... in which case for the past 2 weeks it has made me sick with the reruns of sappy movies, and watching everyone around me turn mushy with their special someone. however now i dont mind hearing about other people's plans, its sweet to hear what they are doing.

.... i just gotta remember that when i am bitterly sitting alone on saturday. lol.





the act of sacraficing bitter memories

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posted on 2004-2-10 at 03:19
poor amanda... at least you are not alone... i too have no one to share this lame holiday with... not that i really care.





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posted on 2004-2-10 at 03:25
i am alone.... i have no one to sit around bitterly with... no one to make random plans to divert my attention with... no one but myself and my thoughts....

the holiday is nice for those, whom have someone to share it with... unfortunately that does not include me....





the act of sacraficing bitter memories

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posted on 2004-2-10 at 04:28
i have deffinatly noticed the vdc going on. I'd like to say its my charm thats atractic all the ladies lately but i am running away from them lately it seems. i refuse to fall to it and i remain single





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posted on 2004-2-10 at 04:31
I am also alone on Saturday night. I'm almost apsolutely sure unless someone comes to escort me away on a white horse... Ahhh! Naw I'm dreaming. My friend Amanda( not you mi, sorry lol) and I made a pact that if we have nothing to do we might get dressed up and go to the movies and make fun of all the sap going on. Or just sit at home and eat chocolate and play video games.....mm chocolate.





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posted on 2004-2-10 at 05:28
you made a pact that you MIGHT do something... how does that work?





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posted on 2004-2-10 at 18:27
The question isn't "what is love?"

..but What ISN'T love?


Makes you think.





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posted on 2004-2-10 at 18:29
is it possible to find love via lust/infatuation?





Amid the chaos of that day, when all I could hear was the thunder of gunshots, and all I could smell was the violence in the air, I look back and am amazed that my thoughts were so clear and true, that three words went through my mind endlessly, repeating themselves like a broken record: you're so cool, you're so cool, you're so cool. And sometimes Clarence asks me what I would have done if he had died, if that bullet had been two inches more to the left. To this, I always smile, as if I'm not going to satisfy him with a response. But I always do. I tell him of how I would want to die, but that the anguish and the want of death would fade like the stars at dawn, and that things would be much as they are now. Perhaps. Except maybe I wouldn't have named our son Elvis.

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posted on 2004-2-10 at 18:31
I don't know.

I think that love can be obtained in a number of ways.

What love is to others, might be seen as lust to you and vice-versa.





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posted on 2004-2-10 at 18:33
while yor points are valid, you'd have to be speaking from an entirely first person point of view while discssing a topic like this.

there are certain unavoidable facts when it comes to the difference between love and lust, it's just that lust bears the uncanny ability to blind someone, just as love does.

is it possible to lust after someone for so long that you find yourself in ove with them??

keep in mind there IS a right and wrong answer to this question.






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Amid the chaos of that day, when all I could hear was the thunder of gunshots, and all I could smell was the violence in the air, I look back and am amazed that my thoughts were so clear and true, that three words went through my mind endlessly, repeating themselves like a broken record: you're so cool, you're so cool, you're so cool. And sometimes Clarence asks me what I would have done if he had died, if that bullet had been two inches more to the left. To this, I always smile, as if I'm not going to satisfy him with a response. But I always do. I tell him of how I would want to die, but that the anguish and the want of death would fade like the stars at dawn, and that things would be much as they are now. Perhaps. Except maybe I wouldn't have named our son Elvis.

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posted on 2004-2-10 at 18:34
Hmmm *rubs chin toughtfully*

You are right.

I guess the answer to the question "what is love?" for ME would be that love just IS.







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posted on 2004-2-10 at 18:39
since i'm 99% sure that i've never experienced being in love, my definition can neither be entirely right, nor emotionally fuelled.

to ask me, the only definition i could provide would be a breakdown of the chemical and biological changes the body undergoes while falling/being in love. a concept more basic than the topic at hand, yet still impossibel to comprehend.

a question such as 'what is love' is doomed to sit behind the metaphorical bars of condemning "rhetoric". someone can very easiy tell you what it's like to BE in love, but can they in fact tell you what love actually is.

love is blind, can you find your way around in the dark?





Amid the chaos of that day, when all I could hear was the thunder of gunshots, and all I could smell was the violence in the air, I look back and am amazed that my thoughts were so clear and true, that three words went through my mind endlessly, repeating themselves like a broken record: you're so cool, you're so cool, you're so cool. And sometimes Clarence asks me what I would have done if he had died, if that bullet had been two inches more to the left. To this, I always smile, as if I'm not going to satisfy him with a response. But I always do. I tell him of how I would want to die, but that the anguish and the want of death would fade like the stars at dawn, and that things would be much as they are now. Perhaps. Except maybe I wouldn't have named our son Elvis.

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posted on 2004-2-10 at 18:56
I am currently infatuated by someone, and it's one of those bad infatuations...
Platonic love at its best, impossible for it to ever come true, but...it just keeps you there, and you know you want to let go, but just can't...

Ahh..I hate this.

I thought I knew what love was, but...as you all know my boyfriend broke up with me a week ago, which can only mean it was never love to begin with....so, yeah.

what is love...baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me...no more...
I want to watch "A night at the Roxbury" like, now.

Um, yeah about Valentine's day in particular...it feels weird, I know I always say I don't believe in it..but frankly it does bug me to not be shown some type of affection/appreciation on the actual day.
On Friday I'm SUPPOSED to go out with someone for coffee/dinner yet on Saturday someone invited me over to their house, he's cooking and then we're watching a movie..

I'm not looking to get into anything love-related right now though, not at this point...I'm kinda in limbo right now dealing with this breakup, it has never seemed more unfair than today.

Maybe I'm just feeling overall depression though..meh.

Dez





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posted on 2004-2-10 at 23:45
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it seems like this topic has been dead for two days... i think i've had a change of heart about valentines day. personally i never really cared.... until this year... in which case for the past 2 weeks it has made me sick with the reruns of sappy movies, and watching everyone around me turn mushy with their special someone. however now i dont mind hearing about other people's plans, its sweet to hear what they are doing.

.... i just gotta remember that when i am bitterly sitting alone on saturday. lol.


is this bout you know who....?????





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Things seem so wrong (I had something worth living for)
I cant go on, but its something we’re suppose to do
My heart is crushed, now that I’m without you
I’m without you *Xx

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posted on 2004-2-11 at 00:02
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is this bout you know who....?????
where on earth did you get that idea?





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posted on 2004-2-11 at 00:05
*sigh*

This whole thread reminds me of one of those old country love songs.





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posted on 2004-2-11 at 00:07
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is this bout you know who....?????
where on earth did you get that idea?


You took the words right out of my mouth. I believe these are forums. They are for venting one's problems, situations, experiences, troubles or for having a good time. Let people post what they want to post.





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posted on 2004-2-11 at 00:11
Oh come on Chris, you KNOW you want to throw a pie at someone's face hahaha





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posted on 2004-2-11 at 00:12
I like pie.

And cake.


And Dez...the bringer of pie and cake.

weirdo lol





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posted on 2004-2-11 at 00:14
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you made a pact that you MIGHT do something... how does that work?
What I meant was we made a pact to do something FOR SURE if we don't get swept away. Get it? No not really me neither. You must know what I'm trying to say... it is too confusing to thouroughly explain it all out. Meh





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