ok itz funny how some ppl change... like one minutes there all buddy buddy with u, they talk to u all the time and they tell u everything and as soon
as something or someone new comes into there lives they totally forget about u! and it funny how u think you an this person were actually friends at
one point but in the end u realize that it was all just an act, and every now and then when they do talk to u , u know itz just so that it
doesn't seem they don't want anything to do with u, or when they need something
i hate when ppl do this!
*cough* not gonan name names!
itz pretty sad when u think u r friends with someone and then u realize your not
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posted on 2004-6-15 at 03:39
Hmm.. this has happened to me soo many times and it is really the worst feeling ever. .
although i wish i've never done anything simular. but in a way I have done this without really knowing. I have at times not talked to people
cause of newer people in my life although it wasn't cause i didn't feel they weren't my friend, it was just a thing of time. In
general when i meet people i tend to get to know them.. But my close friends know their not forgotten.. Friends have always been my biggest thing in
my life. I never exactly had supportive parents so I realied of my friends for everyting, and all my friends know they can come to me. I always
come back to my old true friends. even if now a dayz this happens to be a rather small number. But they say if you have 1 true friend your seen as
very fortunate! so I do feel very forturnate, and i wouldn't know where I would be with out my friends.
But yeah the times you realise that someone used you and leaves you for something like this is the worst feeling. Its totally wrong! that is
something i know i personally would't do, it has happened to me to many times and is totally wrong in every level.
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posted on 2004-6-15 at 13:10
An adult will be lucky enough to have 3 good friends in their life.
Ahhh.... the world of being used...I've been too much, I guess its because I make friendly with someone they get what they want from me and
leave. I'm all mixed up and confused. No fun at all. I must say my own mother has used me, now that is hurtful. She treated me like shit and I
had to do all this stuff for her while she just basically did next to nothing. Cause I went to the house 2 weeks ago and my God is that place is a
mess. And i found out she doesnt want me back in the house but she acts around me like she does. The life of being used by your own flesh and blood.
Thank God I have other female figures in my life that I can call my mommies
[Edited on 15-6-04 by 1lilrockerchic]
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posted on 2004-6-15 at 14:05
Ah young children.
Life's a bitch. Learn to deal with it.
I hate myself and I want to die.
1lilrockerchic
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posted on 2004-6-15 at 14:16
Could deal with your own flesh and blood lie about you and try to get you kicked outta a place that you are staying at? I dont think so.... in ways
I'm glad im outta there cause my mother wasnt really a mother to me. my "mommies are more mothers to me.
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xX*I am sorry now (but will I ever let you go…)
Things seem so wrong (I had something worth living for)
I cant go on, but its something we’re suppose to do
My heart is crushed, now that I’m without you
I’m without you *Xx
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posted on 2004-6-15 at 15:03
As much as I'd love to bitch about this with you guys, I don't see how it would accomplish anything, so I'll just say "ok
then" and piss off out of here.
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posted on 2004-6-15 at 16:39
i love you liz
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posted on 2004-6-15 at 16:39
sin, you just said you'd love to. so it would be accomplishing something - you might gain enjoyment from it.
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posted on 2004-6-15 at 16:42
yes, listen to Bart!
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posted on 2004-6-15 at 16:43
quotation:Originally posted by tremendous
sin, you just said you'd love to. so it would be accomplishing something - you might gain enjoyment from it.
maybe he was lying! you can never trust those australians...
ta bi
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posted on 2004-6-15 at 16:46
i love liz to, she is adorable
but ya i know what you mean
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posted on 2004-6-15 at 17:31
The nature of personal relationships is always changing. It is a fact of life. I remember having friends 5 years ago who I do not talk to now.
It's not that I ditched them or they ditched me, it's simply that their lives have taken different paths than mine. This could mean many
things: Maybe they moved away, maybe their interests diverged from mine. If I were to see an old friend on the street I would say hello and be
personable to them. I would expect that they would do the same to me.
It doesn't always mean that the person hates you or has used you if you are no longer in touch with them (Although I gather that's what
sparked this thread).
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posted on 2004-6-15 at 21:58
I totally agree with you jeff. people always change their paths or directions, and it happens that some times u end up not talking to people.
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posted on 2004-6-16 at 04:10
Sarcasm Tremendous, sarcasm.
1lilrockerchic
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posted on 2004-6-16 at 15:39
quotation:Originally posted by Jeff K
It doesn't always mean that the person hates you or has used you if you are no longer in touch with them (Although I gather that's what
sparked this thread).
That is true I can see that in my other realtionships with other people. As for my mother I do talk to her but every word/ action is a lie.
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xX*I am sorry now (but will I ever let you go…)
Things seem so wrong (I had something worth living for)
I cant go on, but its something we’re suppose to do
My heart is crushed, now that I’m without you
I’m without you *Xx
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posted on 2004-8-6 at 23:13
If this is the case with myself, im sorry to anyone i have offended in the past, it was not my intention to do so to anyone. I realise i have
changed, i have learned a great deals of things, still dealing with certain stresses and worries. hmm, I can see i've contradicted my own
words.. i dont like when something like this happens to me, so i should go and do it to others. sorry all... trying to find myself again.
