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posted on 2004-2-13 at 05:33
i think women care less than men when it comes to looks. men are visually driven, after all.
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posted on 2004-2-13 at 13:21
yes, to add to that chris, im pretty sure it is genetic.
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posted on 2004-2-13 at 19:43
quotation:Originally posted by SideO_JR
i think looks have to be a factor, because if your not physically attractive to their appearance how could it ever be more then anything other then
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Agreed.
Anyone who says "looks don't matter" in a categorical fashion is outright lying, unless they are blind. Looks do matter, and
that's that. If I don't think a girl is attractive, then it won't get far. Likewise, if a girl isn't suitably interesting
(personality-wise) then it won't get far either. An amazing personality can make-up for below average appearance, and vice-versa, but only to a
point. Keep in mind that "attractive" and "personality" are 100% subjective.
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posted on 2004-2-13 at 22:56
i'd say attractive goes farther for personality, if its just kinda a meet at a party and hook up, but personal;ity deffinatly becomes more
important if you are going for a relationship
How do you communicate those emotions that are so intense that no physical expression or series of words can even scratch the surface?
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posted on 2004-2-14 at 04:29
I still stand by my previous statement,Rob.
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posted on 2004-2-15 at 17:14
It's possible to be attracted to someone based upon looks alone. However, an attraction based upon looks alone can never really be more than a
crush (Or a serious obsession if you're a psychopath.)
By virtue of the way human being are, our attractions are made stronger by emotional bonds. In order to create emotional bonds you obviously have to
be in touch with the person's personality, sense of humour, intellect, etc.
With that said, for me, attraction is firstly about personality but looks are a close second. I like the whole package.
